With everything else students have to tackle throughout the semester, meeting up regularly isn’t always so easy.
Here are a few tips to stay motivated and ensure you are improving your skills in the tandem:
Stick to your regular meeting times
Find a fixed time that suits both partners—once a week or every 2 weeks. Try to attend as much as you can, or you will quickly become frustrated. Learning a language requires regular practice!
Devote sufficient time to both languages
It can easily happen, especially if you both speak one of the languages at a higher level, that you continue to talk in this language only.
Make sure that you really devote the same amount of time to both languages.
Clarify goals together
Talk to each other:
- Why are you learning the language? For vacations, work, or studies?
- What is more important—to understand the spoken language or to read, write, or speak it yourself?
- What do you want to be able to do with the language when you complete the tandem experience?
Correcting in a tandem
Talk about how you wish to be corrected. You can correct implicitly (i.e., by repeating with correct grammar and vocabulary what your partner has just said) or note mistakes and discuss them at the end of the meeting.
The most important thing is to feel comfortable in a tandem and to see corrections as an opportunity to improve your language skills.
Get feedback
After the first meeting and during the semester, ask the following questions:
- What did we do?
- Was it useful?
- How could we improve our meetings?
A learning diary could be helpful
A learning diary could include the following:
- What did we do? Was it useful?
- What language problems arose?
- What are the consequences for the next meeting?